Denis Boyd
The Key to Marital Success
What two attitudes are necessary to create and maintain a successful marriage? Both spouses must be open to growth and they must make their marriage the top priority. Many couples are surprised to learn that they have the opportunity to...
Questions that Arise When a Loved One Dies
Why is it taking so long for me to feel better? You may be asking this question of yourself after only a short time following the death of a loved one. Grief feels crazy at times and you want it...
Christmas Blues
Most people love Christmas: the music and coloured lights, traditions, great food, gifts and special gatherings with family and friends. There are some, however, who dread the season or find it stressful; they experience a significant contrast between their unhappiness...
Communicating With Teens
Is it possible to communicate with a teenager? Yes... we are always communicating with our teens. However, the issue has more to do with quality than quantity and often the quality is not that great. Effective communication with teens can...
Live the Moment Well
Several years ago we were canoeing the Nicomekl River with good friends. Lunch time rolled around and we stopped and had a picnic in a farmer’s field, watched by three horses grazing in the distance. It was a beautiful, sunny...
In Marriage, the Connection Counts!
In marriage, the bond is everything. Recently we attended the wedding of Dean and Macy. It was a beautiful wedding and the two of them were extremely happy. Their connection (or bond) was noticeably strong on their marriage day, and...
Self Love is Mis-directed
In a recent radio interview, the creator of a dating service stated that he requires that his clients “love themselves” before he will work with them. He then added the common adage that “you can’t love another unless you first...
Good Listening is Hard Work
Poor or reactionary listening is a major issue for many couples who seek counselling. One challenge is to see past the tone of voice or irritability of the partner who is sharing his or her ideas or feelings. Even marriage...
